Nikki Smith on: Casual sex. "There's a time and a place for it I think. If I'm going to have casual sex with somebody then it's going to strictly be casual sex. I don't want to have sex too soon with someone I'm interested in dating. I just need some no-strings-attached dick, and sometimes that works. But usually if I'm interested in a relationship I take it a little slower." Nikki Smith on: Dating. "Surprisingly enough, when it comes to dating I'm a little old fashioned. I don't usually kiss on a first date. I definitely don't have sex on a first date. I really only choose to have intimate sex with a partner if Iââ¬Ëfeel like the relationship is going to last for a little while. "Not everyone who takes me out to dinner is gonna get laid. I think that's the biggest thing. And Iââ¬Ëjust like to have fun. Iââ¬Ëlike to do random things. Iââ¬Ëthink a fun date is going to the batting cages or going to have frozen yogurt. And having sex in the parking lot afterwards! Of course that's after I get to that point with someone."